Blurred Lines

Are partial truths lies?

Example: You ask me, "Am I single"?, I respond, yes. But I am separated from my husband, not Divorced… Is that a lie that I am single?

Example: When our children lose a tooth, we tell them the tooth fairy is coming. Is that a lie or a "white lie"?

When are lies lying? Who made the rules? What are "acceptable" lies, and what is plain out wrong? Is it all a matter of perspective?

I prefer blunt honesty. I have been frank with some people and lost "friendships." I say that loosely because I feel if we were truly friends, then the truth shouldn't break us. That is a blessing in disguise; I need REAL people in my circle.

What is the difference for you?